How to get your baby used to a new dog?
Dog and baby
Anyone who had a pet in childhood will fondly remember their friend.
Having a dog for children, however, carries with it, in addition to many benefits, dangers that we must be aware of before embracing a small, barking creature.
In this article, I answer the most frequently asked questions by future dog owners. I encourage you to read the entire ?
- Why is it worth bringing up a child with a dog?
- What are the risks?
- Which dog to choose: purebred or from a shelter?
- How to get your dog used to the presence of a new family member?
- How to prepare a child for the arrival of a dog?
- Since when a child can be responsible for a dog?
- How to ensure your child's safety when in contact with a dog?
- Alien dog and child: behavior during an attack by an aggressive dog
Why is it worth bringing up a child with a dog?Why is it worth bringing up children with a dog?
Many psychotherapists will say unequivocally that having a dog or a cat makes the young man develops faster.
Children raised at home where there is a quadruped:
- they establish contacts with other people faster,
- they develop their imagination,
- they learn responsibility for another being.
The presence of a dog has been proven has a calming effect, develops empathy - the child learns to read emotions faster.
This fact is used, e.g. in dogotherapy children suffering from mild forms of autism or ADHD.
Some parents are concerned about diseases that can threaten children raised with their dogs.
Children who have been in contact with dogs throughout their lives are less likely to develop:
- hay fever,
- other diseases.
Their immune system is better developed than in children raised in sterile conditions.
And most importantly - memories.
Can anyone who owned a pet as a child say that it was a bad experience for him?
I personally do not know such a person.
Dogs become family members for children, friends who will always cheer them up, play when mum has no time to complain about, and he will not say anything to his mother anyway, because he cannot speak.
The dog will always love your baby, no matter what.
And this is probably the most important thing about having a pet.
What are the risks?What are the risks of owning a dog?
There are also a few downsides to having a dog that you need to be aware of before adopting a pet.
First of all, dogs are more duty - do not count on your 6-year-old son or daughter to politely go for walks with your Burek, take him to the vet or feed him.
For the most part, this responsibility will fall on the shoulders of an already overworked parent.
There are also additional costs associated with having a dog - dog food, groupers, prevention or veterinary care may burden your home budget.
Remember about taking a "free " dog from the shelter, because I cannot afford a purebred "dog ".
The fact that the pooch is given to you free of charge does not mean that it will not require a certain amount of funding, e.g. in keeping him healthy.
Teaching the dog the behaviors we want will also require you to spend time, patience and, when the dog is problematic, also money for training the dog or advice from behaviorists.
Holiday trips or holidays can also be a problem.
If you have a dog, you have to consider whether he should go with you or maybe it would be better if he stayed.
Whether to give it back, for example. to the dog hotel, or will someone be able to look after him in your absence?.
And one last thing.Dogs can be vectors of some parasites or diseases. They can also cause an allergy in your baby.
I think, however, that while maintaining the principles of hygiene and prophylaxis, as well as proper preparation of the child for the arrival of a new four-legged friend, these threats are not a problem.
Which dog to choose: purebred or from a shelter?Purebred dog or from a shelter?
The decision has been made and you want a dog in your home.
You ask yourself, however, what kind?
Would a purebred puppy be better??
But is it better to adopt a dog from a shelter, teaching the child to be empathetic and compassionate to poor shelter creatures??
I am not able to answer these questions unequivocally.
When opting for purebred dogs, the argument is usually relative predictability of the dog's behavior and dimensions.
So if you want a pooch from a puppy, it's best that it grows no larger than the calf, and it is best that it should be a couch dog rather than an active backyard dog, decide on purebred dog.
It does not guarantee that the descriptions in the books will match the character of your puppy.
I know Yorkies who, supposedly intended mainly to lie on the couch and look pretty, are not able to live without a 3-hour walk and getting dirty in the mud.
I also know greyhounds that, supposedly active, willingly spend their time at home.
It depends on the individual characteristics of the pet.Remember, however, that when choosing a breed you should not only look at it, but rather the expected character, the requirements of the breeds concerned and predisposition to diseases.
If, on the other hand, you decided to help a dog from the shelter, ask his guardian about his character, age or health problems.
People working in shelters are usually able to tell something about each of their charges.
Also ask for an opportunity walking with a dog and a child, so as to observe how they behave together.
It is also a good idea to take the pooch home for a day, on a trial basis, and observe his behavior.
How to get your dog used to the presence of a new family member?How to get your dog used to your baby?
First, start your dog's adaptation process before giving birth.
First, teach him the command - "Don't move! ".
When the toddler appears in your home, on the floor, his toys, pacifiers, bottles will surely lie - perfect items for dog's play, or food, thrown by the child, which will not necessarily serve Burek.
Prepare your doggie for increased noise levels in the house.
For this purpose, from time to time you can play recordings of crying children, or by using a "crying " doll.
If you do not want the pooch to enter the children's room, teach him in advance that this is not his area.
Make him accustomed to not being able to spend as much time on him as before the baby is born.
At the moment when the baby appears in the world, even before his arrival home, let the dog get used to the smell of the new family member.
For this purpose, you can bring your toddler's blanket or rompers home, give your pet a sniff.
In order for the pooch to associate the child with something good even more, you can give him a treat while sniffing, use clicker or to play with the dog for a while.
When it's time to come home, let the pooch sniff the baby - and here you can deepen his positive feelings, e.g. giving him a treat or a new toy.
It is important to provide him with peace then - take the baby in silence, tell the pooch that he is a new family member, pet him, say hello to him.
Keep his behavior under control all the time.
Check e.g. if he doesn't start to growl, then give him a while to get used to the situation.
If you notice that it is calmer, try to approach the baby again.
Do not return your dog for "the first days ", to a grandmother, hotel or an unknown babysitter, because then the dog will associate the appearance of the child with something bad.
You can safely carry out all activities related to caring for a child with the dog.
If the quadruped notices that the child is very important to you, he will take care of it so that "the Lord will be pleased ".
Remember, however, that a dog is only an animal, you do not know how it will react, e.g. to pulling the ear, plucking the hair, therefore, try not to leave the dog and child unattended.
Teach the child also that the dog is a living creature that feels pain or anger, therefore it cannot be hit, kicked, pulled by the ears or torn out.
Even the most patient Burek can show his teeth at this point.
How to prepare a child for the arrival of a dog?How to prepare a child for the arrival of a dog?
Before adopting or buying a four-legged friend, have a serious conversation with your baby.
- First, note that the dog is not a toy, but a living, thinking and feeling creature. The dog cannot be pulled by the ears, tail or feet. He must not be hit or kicked. He also has the right to rest, so if the dog is asleep, we leave him alone.
- Also note that the dog has his own food, he cannot be fed with human food or put his hand in the bowl while the pet is eating. Also tell your child that eating dog food is also not a good idea - and there are cases like this.
- It is better for the child not to play with the doggy's toys - it may end up being bitten by the jealous pooch. Also note that the dog does not understand that the cars or small dolls lying on the floor are not his, so toys should be cleaned.
- You can easily burden an older child with some obligations related to having a dog, e.g. walks around the house, or feeding and watering the pet. Make the child aware that if he or she decides to perform any of the duties, they must fulfill it all the time, not only when they want to do so.
- The child can also easily take part in raising the dog - simple commands such as "sit ", "give your paw " or "down " will teach the pooch that the child is higher in the hierarchy, and will also tighten the bond between the young man and the pet not to mention the pride in learning something your four-legged friend. If your dog is enrolled in a behaviorist or dog school, it makes sense for your child to participate in exercise. He will then see that having a dog is associated with obligations towards him, the time spent together will tighten the bond between them, and it is great fun.
- The child should also take part in the process of buying or adopting a dog. Let him see the conditions under which pets that are devoted because they are bored with their owners must live. This will teach the child to be empathetic and make the child sensitive to the harm of another being.
Since when a child can be responsible for a dog?Since when a child can be responsible for a dog? It is believed that the lower limit of animal ownership is the school entry age, i.e. approx 6 - 7 years.
However, do not count on the fact that a 7-year-old child will take full responsibility for the life and health of the dog.
Rather, it will learn responsibility from you.
Also be aware that the child learns responsibility from an early age and it is a very individual matter.
How to ensure your child's safety when in contact with a dog?How to ensure your child's safety when in contact with a dog?
- Teach your child to safely approach the dog. Don't let him scream, wave his arms, and don't let him look into the dog's eyes. During the first contact, give the dog a hand to smell before he starts stroking it. Then check if the pooch is starting to frizzy, or growls. Only when you are sure that the dog is not reacting aggressively, let the child stroke the pet and give him a treat.
- Also, teach your child how not to approach the dog. What signs does a dog who does not like something give? Ruffled fur, showing teeth, growling or aggressive barking, in the language of the dog says as much as: "do not come! ". In these situations, you should not approach the dog.
- Also tell him that not every dog is as nice as yours. It is better not to pet the foreign dogs, or at least ask the dog's owner for permission.
- Just in case, teach your child to behave when the dog attacks.
- There are special schools that teach children to relate to dogs. It may be worthwhile for your child to learn how to behave towards a new family member.
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It is also worth teaching the child how to behave towards foreign dogs.
Thanks to this, the child will avoid attacks or bites.
- The child should not play with foreign dogs. The dog must not be teased, kicked or thrown at it with various objects.
- Do not feed unfamiliar dogs - when a child wants to give him a treat, he may end up bitten.
- Teach your child not to enter foreign property with a dog. The child should know what the signs warning against dangerous dogs look like and what they mean.
And how a child should behave in the event of an attack?
- Do not run away from the dog. Better let the child stand at attention, put his arms around his neck, and cover his face with his elbows. In this position, the dog will probably smell them and walk away.
- If this does not happen and the dog continues to attack, the child should assume the turtle position - rest his chin on his chest, put his arms around his neck and bend to the ground. Meanwhile, have the child call for help.
SummaryIs it worth raising a child with a dog?
Your baby and your dog can become best friends.
They can be teachers for themselves, confidants of their ills.
It is up to the parent and the appropriate preparation, both of the child and the dog, to determine the relationship that is formed between them.
If you have had experiences with raising a child with a dog, I'd love to hear about them. I will also answer your questions, if you are thinking about adopting a pooch - add a comment under the article, I will write back as soon as possible.
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